My son comes home with migraines too, not as often though since they took him out of the cafeteria and eats in a quiet room. I was just telling my friend today that when they come home from schol give them a break! She makes her daughter start right into her homework, she has an awful time, she is failing everything, can't remember her respoinsibilites etc... I told her when people come home from work they need a break, think of someone in her sitiuation, she just spent all day in school , struggling, then comes home and has to jump right back into it, and she is getting impatient with her. She might not speak to me agian, but I told her give her a break, not quite that nicely! ahahaha anyway... sometimes we have to do things 15 on 15 off. I always put myself in his shoes, I cannot fully understand what he is feeling, but I can sure try. I have never been so intune with someone in my life. We went and tried cub scouts tonight for the first time, becuase I was told to get him involved in social groups. Well this was the first night, of course we walk into the Halloween party with no costume. Anyway... the one leader I see her put her hand in his face and says " I don't want to hear you!" I said to him what did you say? ( canuse he can blurt things out sometimes) and he said I didn't say anything. So I went up to her and said what did he say, she said , 'He said aw man' I about lost it, but I did not, ( must have shown in my face) First I have never told either of my kids I don't want to hear them, ( even when I Don't want to lol) second, you put your hand in my son's face, she was like " I have five boys and I stop it before it starts" well I told her... " sorry but he has some underlying issues and sometimes he blurts tings out because he cannot control himself, if it is inapropriate I want him corrected appropriately, but he didn't do anything wrong. ' She looked a little frightened, lol she kept apoligizing to me over and over again. I don't care if you have 10 kids lady, I teach 38 kids on some days in a classroom, I have NEVER TOLD THEM I DON'T WANT TO HEAR THEM! Needless to say she is not his pack leader so we will go back and he loved it. I do beleive it will not happen again. anyway... now that I wrote a novel that does not pertain to this topic I am going to go! lol