My 6 yr old got I to trouble at school yesterday with four other children. They were apparently playing when one of the kids suggested to run after another boy and "get" him. This child was minding his own business. I was mortified. Teacher announces he and the others having their playtime taken off them. Alarm bells rang in my head. This will have a knock on effect for me as he is usually good at school, no meltdowns. Went to see the SENCO teacher who said they have to let the children know that it is not allowed and all have to have same punishment. I agree with them totally I don't want a bully for a child. But don't want extra problems than what I already have when school is over.

1. How has other schools dealt with this kind of thing.
2. How do you get your child to understand social skills.

My son doesn't see others invisible boxes. He touches people and things. He says what is in his head without a filter. He is rude at times to people he doesn't know. He will look in people's bags and pockets. When I talk to him about it he says he doesn't know why he does it and when I am telling him off he looks elsewhere, pulls faces and fidgets. Not even sure anything is being heard. Know it doesn't make a difference what I said. This is the first child I have had to deal with that has any special needs and some days find it realllllllly hard.