Thanks, youare right, there are just some days that we as parents are having an overwhelming day ourselves and it is just too much! Really if I call it a screen door do we really have to debate it?!?!? Of course we do! lol I tried to explain it to my older son today that how would it feel to wear sandpaper all day, how would it feel to hear a loud noise nad it feels like a ice pick going through your brain, etc... and this is how he lives all day everyday and it will never go away! To allow him to come home and let this be his safe place where he can be himself, relax, know he can trust the people he is with. He gets called crazy becuse of the hand flapping and strange noises and faces he makes whne he gets too excited. Have some compassion. I had just had it this morning with the fighting and arguing. Seriously he is 13 it is time to stop and think, you want to be treated mature then act like it! ugh! So, I think he got the picture at least until the next fight! ahahhahahaah Well have a good weekend! It is nice to have you guys on here!