Yesterday after our meltdown, and how when mylder son came in the room my younger with SPD reacted. HE beacme very tense, verbally abusive, etc. I sat him down and asked him what his problem is with his brother. I thik I mentioned htis above as I look at my other post, anyway... today is a completely different day! (knock on wood) He is not angry, he came running up to hm after school telling him he loves him, he is excited that he promised to play with him later. So far no name calling, hitting, etc. Hopefully this lasts throughout the day. IT is going to take work with the both of them, the older one to stop being a mother hen and a sibling, and my younger one learning better coping skills.